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Sunday, February 20, 2011 . 3:29 AM

MSN & Chats

I know... I know.. some may think who uses msn nowadays.. More like the age of skype, WhatsApp and for ajs, grindr and etc etc. The good old msn, probably called windows live now is still good and user friendly k?! =))

Almost 2 months since I've tried to reach out and make more aj friends and online friends, my msn have been busier with more chats and people to talk to. Over time somehow it just gets tiring, being good to people being nice and all. Even though I believe I'm being myself how I talk to people online even, but it gets tiring after awhile. I remember juniormaster told me before, that we need not be nice to everyone and wasting our time. Those are insignificant to the personal problems that are lying in wait to be solved. Understood what he advised, it's true too what I feel about it. SStriking a balance between others and self is not as easy as it seems.

Sometimes we can get really selfish and other times we either feel obligated or selfless for others. Strriking a balance is something that we have to remind ourselves from time to time! I have not been balanced lately with this. I could spend hours and hours non-stop on my netbook chatting with ajs.. Even to the extend of chatting while bathing.. LOL... However much I feel I have to deviate myself from it more to balance it out, I do still think msn and chats have alot of positive aspects to it.

I've talked to people, met up with people, the good and the bad. Sincere friends that I want to strive to be better to, to learn from. Sharing with each other our lives and experiences, having good company whether online or offline. What's net after msn?? Hopefully meting up more with people when I've got more time to grow friendships from there!

I may be back later in the night to blog more, probably more personal stuff that I have been thinking lately. Hopefuly there's more time later. Tata for now! =))